My friend and yoga instructor reveals her identity and
shares some photos of her Irish homeland in this guest blog, kindly written
after her June 2013 trip to Ireland.
At the beginning of March of this year, my friend Judy Fox
and I struck up a deal. I would
trade private yoga instruction in exchange for genealogical research into my
immigrant ancestor. I wanted to
find out where he came from before my trip to Ireland in June. Through Judy's tireless research, hours
of straining neck and wrist muscles and no doubt eyes glazing over from staring
at a computer screen, she was able to achieve what I consider the impossible: the exact spot where my great-great grandfather was born in County Kilkenny,Ireland, in the year 1829.
Although the goal of our arrangement was to find the origin
of birth of my Irish ancestor and some flexibility for Judy, we came to find so much
more. Through yoga poses and mugs
of hot cider, we also discovered a genuine and caring friendship with each other. Each week as we met on Judy's living
room floor I would applaud her latest discoveries, and she would go into a pose
and say, “I'm going to feel this tomorrow.”
Because of Judy's research I was able to visit the exact
townland where my family originated.
As I walked through woods and fields on the Freshford Loop, I was able
to imagine what life might have been like for my ancestors living in such
glorious countryside. Breathing in
the fresh smell of grass and hearing the sounds of a gentle brook while
climbing over stone walls, I had the sense of coming home. This is what we are probably searching
for when we decide to trace our roots.
It’s a way to feel connected to the people from our past who had a part
in creating us, even though we never met.
My trip to Ireland was filled with beautiful sights,
history, interesting characters and music. The highlight was Kilkenny City where I strolled the
streets, toured the castle and the 800-year-old cathedral, and enjoyed a pint
along the River Nore. I would like
to thank my friend, Judy for giving me this gift.
--Roxanne Buggy Thomas, Roxanne Thomas Yoga